You've been with yourself every waking moment of your life. But who are you? In this thought-provoking investigation, Brian Lowery argues that the "self" as we know it is a social construct, created in our relationships and social interactions—we are unique because our individual pattern of relationships is unique. By using this perspective of selfhood to explore questions of inequity, race, gender, politics, and power structures, Lowery dispels the myth of individualism and suggests that we can remake our lives and the world accordingly.